When was the last time you heard someone say they're avoiding something because of pain in their vulva or vagina? Unless you're a healthcare provider, the answer is probably: never. But vulvar and vaginal pain can be just as paralyzing as headaches or back pain. The difference? Most people who suffer from it don't talk about it, not even with their closest friends. They suffer quietly. Shamefully. Part of it is because the vulva and the vagina are still a taboo. You just don'